Question from Samantha
My 15 yr old son has ADHD & ODD… high anxiety, has controlled his urge to pull out strands of hair eyebrows and eyelashes... had him in good therapy group since he was five... past 11 yrs taken its toll on family... however when son visits my brothers (his uncles)he suppresses his odd urges, yet at home he is a monster… he happens be 2 ft taller than me as well as 200 pounds …what we’ve come to call his "bulling" for hours on end... how common do ODD teens change their behavior when around others.
The symptoms of ODD are usually seen in multiple settings, but are usually more noticeable at home or at school. So it’s not too surprising that an ODD youngster does not “act-out” everywhere he/she goes.
A youngster with ODD can be very difficult for moms and dads. Parents need support and understanding – and can help their youngster in the following ways:
• Always build on the positives, give the youngster praise and positive reinforcement when he shows flexibility or cooperation.
• Maintain interests other than your youngster with ODD, so that managing your youngster doesn’t take all your time and energy. Try to work with and obtain support from the other adults (teachers, coaches, and spouse) dealing with your youngster.
• Manage your own stress with healthy life choices such as exercise and relaxation. Use respite care and other breaks as needed
• Pick your battles. Since the youngster with ODD has trouble avoiding power struggles, prioritize the things you want your youngster to do. If you give your youngster a time-out in his room for misbehavior, don’t add time for arguing. Say “your time will start when you go to your room.”
• Set up reasonable, age appropriate limits with consequences that can be enforced consistently.
• Take a time-out or break if you are about to make the conflict with your youngster worse, not better. This is good modeling for your youngster. Support your youngster if he decides to take a time-out to prevent overreacting.
My Out-of-Control Child: Help for Parents with ODD Children
* ODD Support Group for Parents and Teachers
Even the best-behaved kids can be difficult and challenging at times. Teens are often moody and argumentative. But if your youngster or teen...
What is ODD? Oppositional Defiant Disorder is the most common psychiatrically diagnosed behavioral disorder in kids that usually persists i...
Kids and teens with conduct disorder are highly visible, demonstrating a complicated group of behavioral and emotional problems. Serious, re...
If a child comes to a clinic and is diagnosed with ADHD, about 30-40% of the time the child will also have ODD. Here are some examples of ho...
Behavioral disorders also known as conduct disorders are one of the most common forms of psycho pathology among kids and young adults and is...
Surveys of graduates of education schools and colleges indicate that the #1 area of concern of new educators is their feelings of inadequacy...
Teaching a student who has both Asperger's (AS) and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) requires innovation and patience along with p...
This website covers the "tough topic" of teaching students with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), which includes a diverse popu...
Conduct Disorder (CD) plus Substance Abuse— Sadly, this is very common. In my clinic, every youngster with CD is assumed to be abusing sub...
Students who exhibit violent behavior present the most difficult challenge to educators and moms and dads. Such students may be defiant, sta...