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Dealing with Oppositional Children in the Classroom

One of the scariest issues for educators is dealing with oppositional children in the classroom. While confrontations do not occur every day in every classroom, most if not all secondary school educators will have to deal with a child who is acting belligerent and speaking in out in their classroom. Following are some ideas and tips to help diffuse the situation instead of allowing it to escalate even further.

Call the Office if You Require Help or an Office Escort—

While it is always best to try and diffuse the situation yourself, you should call the office and request additional adult assistance if things are escalating out of hand. If a child is cussing uncontrollably at you and/or other children, throwing things, hitting others, or threatening violence, you need to get assistance from the office.

Contact the Child's Mom and/or Dad—

Try to get the parent involved as soon as possible. Let them know what happened in class and what you would like them to do to help with the situation. Realize, however, that some moms and dads will not be as receptive as others in your efforts. Nonetheless, parental involvement can make a huge difference in many cases.

Create a Behavior Management Plan for Ongoing Issues—

If you have a child who is often oppositional, you need to call together a parent-teacher conference to deal with the situation. Include administration and guidance if you feel it is necessary. Together, you can create a plan for dealing with the child and possibly helping them with any possible anger management issues.

Do Not Get Other Children Involved—

It is counterproductive to get other children involved in the confrontation. For example, if the child is making an accusation about something you did or did not say, do not turn to the rest of the class to ask them what you said right at that moment. The oppositional child might feel backed into a corner and lash out even further. A better response would be that you will be happy to speak with them about the situation once they calm down.

Do Not Provoke a Child—

While this might seem obvious, it is a sad fact that some educators enjoy provoking their children. Do not be one of those educators. Spend your time focusing on what's best for each child and move beyond any petty feelings you might have about past classroom confrontations and situations. While you might privately dislike a child, you should never allow this to show in any way.

Do Not Lose Your Temper—

This can be harder than it sounds. However, it is imperative that you remain calm. You have a classroom full of children watching you. If you lose your temper and start shouting at an oppositional child, you have given up your position of authority and lowered yourself to the child's level. Instead, take a deep breath and remember that you are the authority figure in the situation.

Do Not Raise Your Voice—

This goes hand in hand with not losing your temper. Raising your voice will simply escalate the situation. Instead, a better tack is to talk quieter as the child gets louder. This will help you keep control and appear less oppositional to the child, thereby helping to calm the situation.

Privately Speak to the Child—

You might consider calling a hall conference with the child. Ask them to step outside to speak with you. By removing the audience, you can talk with the child about their issues and try to come to some sort of resolution before the situation gets out of hand. Make sure that during this time, you recognize that you understand they are upset and then talk with them calmly to determine the best resolution to the problem. Use active listening techniques as you talk with the child. If you are able to get the child to calm down and return to class, then make sure that you integrate the child back into the classroom environment. Other children will be watching how you deal with the situation and how you treat the returning child.

Talk With the Child at a Later Time—

A day or two after the situation has been resolved, pull the child involved aside and discuss the situation with them calmly. Use this to try and determine what the trigger was that caused the problem in the first place. This is also a great time to try and give the child ideas of other ways to deal with the situation that they might be able to use in the future. For example, you might have them ask to speak with you quietly instead of shouting in the middle of class. Please see my best teaching experience where I was able to turn an oppositional child into one who was productive and happy in my classroom.

Treat Each Child as an Individual—

Realize that what works with one child might not work with another. For example, you might find that one child responds particularly well to humor while another might get angry when you try to make light of the situation.

Use Referrals if Necessary—

An office referral is one tool in your behavior management plan. This should be used as a last resort for children who cannot be managed within the classroom environment. If you write referrals all the time, you will find that they lose their value both for your children and also for the administration as well. In other words, you want your referrals to mean something and to be acted on as necessary by the administrator in charge of the case.

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Behavioral Problems in Students with Oppositional Defiant Disorder [ODD]

Behavioral disorders also known as conduct disorders are one of the most common forms of psycho pathology among kids and young adults and is the most frequently cited reason for referral to mental health services. The appearance of behavioral disorders is increasing dramatically in our K-12 classrooms. As a result their presence severely constrains the ability of the school systems to educate children effectively. The prevalence of behavioral problems among kids and young adults is substantial. Many surveys indicate that behavioral disorders vary among young adults, ranging from 2 and 6% in K-12 children. This percentage translates into 1.3 to 3.8 million cases of behavioral disorders among the school and pre-college population.

Behavioral disorders become apparent when the ODD student displays a repetitive and impact persistent pattern of behavior that results in the significant disruption in other children. Such disturbances may cause significant impairments in academic, social, and or occupational functioning. Such a behavior pattern is consistent throughout the individual’s life. Among the characteristics of a behavioral disorder among kids and adolescents are:

• A display of bullying, threatening, or intimidating behavior.
• Being physically abusive of others.
• Deliberate destruction of other's property.
• Initiation of aggressive behavior and reacting aggressively towards others.
• Showing callous behavior towards others and lack of feelings of guilt or remorse.
• Showing little empathy and concern for the feelings, wishes, and well being of others.
• They may readily inform on their companions and tend to blame others for their own misdeeds.

General Strategies—

• Administer consequences immediately, then monitor proper behavior frequently.
• As a teacher, you should be patient, sensitive, a good listener, fair and consistent in your treatment of children with behavioral disorders.
• Ask previous educators about interactive techniques that have previously been effective with the ODD student in the past.
• Bring to the ODD student's attention science role models with disabilities with a similar disability to that of the student. Point out that this individual got ahead by a combination of effort and by asking for help when needed.
• Change rewards if they are not effective for motivating behavioral change.
• Determine whether the ODD student is on medication, what the schedule is, and what the medication effects may be on his or her in class demeanor with and without medication. Then adjust teaching strategies accordingly.
• Develop a schedule for applying positive reinforcement in all educational environments.
• Devise a contingency plan with the ODD student in which inappropriate forms of response are replaced by appropriate ones.
• Direct instruction or target behaviors is often required to help children master them.
• Do not expect children with behavioral disorders to have immediate success; work for improvement on a overall basis.
• Encourage others to be friendly with children who have emotional disorders.
• Enforce classroom rules consistently.
• Expose children with behavioral disorders to other children who demonstrate the appropriate behaviors.
• Have pre-established consequences for misbehavior.
• In group activities, acknowledge the contributions of the ODD student with a behavioral disorder.
• Make sure the discipline fits the "crime," without harshness.
• Monitor the ODD student's self-esteem. Assist in modification, as needed.
• Praise immediately at all good behavior and performance.
• Present a sense of high degree of possessiveness in the classroom environment.
• Provide encouragement.
• Reward more than you punish, in order to build self-esteem.
• Self-esteem and interpersonal skills are especially essential for all children with emotional disorders.
• Treat the ODD student with the behavioral disorder as an individual who is deserving of respect and consideration.
• Use time-out sessions to cool off disruptive behavior and as a break if the ODD student needs one for a disability-related reason.
• When appropriate, seek input from the ODD student about their strengths, weaknesses and goals.

Teacher Presentation—

• Administer consequences immediately, then monitor proper behavior frequently.
• After a week, or so, of observation, try to anticipate classroom situations where the student's emotional state will be vulnerable and be prepared to apply the appropriate mitigative strategies.
• As an educator you serve a model for the children who are behaviorally disturbed. Your actions therefore, must be consistent, mature, and controlled. Behavioral outbursts and/or angry shouting at children inhibit rather than enhance a classroom.
• Be fair and consistent, but temper your consistency with flexibility.
• Be positive and supportive.
• By using examples, encourage children to learn science so they can emulate adult behaviors.
• Change rewards if they are not effective for motivating behavioral change.
• Check on the ODD student's basic capacity to communicate and adjust your communications efforts accordingly.
• Consultation with other specialists, including the special education teacher, school psychologist, and others may prove helpful in devising effective strategies.
• Develop a schedule for applying positive reinforcement in all educational environments.
• Devise a structured behavioral management program.
• Direct instruction or target behaviors is often required to help children master them.
• Do not expect children with behavioral disorders to have immediate success; work for improvement on a overall basis.
• Encourage others to be friendly with children who have emotional disorders.
• Enforce classroom rules consistently.
• Expose children with behavioral disorders to other children who demonstrate the appropriate behaviors.
• Find ways to encourage the ODD student.
• Group participation in activities is highly desirable because it makes social contacts possible.
• Have pre-established consequences for misbehavior.
• Have the individual with the behavioral disorder be in charge of an activity which can often reduce the aggressiveness.
• If unstructured activities must occur, you must clearly distinguish them from structured activities in terms of time, place, and expectations.
• Instructions should be simple and very structured.
• Keep an organized classroom learning environment.
• Let your children know the expectations you have, the objectives that have been established for the activity, and the help you will give them in achieving objectives.
• Make sure the discipline fits the "crime," without harshness.
• Monitor the ODD student carefully to ensure that children without disabilities do not dominate the activity or detract in any way from the successful performance of the ODD student with the behavioral disorder.
• Monitor the ODD student's self-esteem. Assist in modification, as needed.
• Plan for successful participation in the activities by the children. Success is extremely important to them.
• Praise immediately and all good behavior and performance.
• Present a sense of positiveness in the learning environment.
• Provide a carefully structured learning environment with regard to physical features of the room, scheduling, routines, and rules of conduct.
• Provide encouragement.
• Remain calm, state the infraction of the rule, and avoid debating or arguing with the ODD student with a behavioral disorder.
• Reward more than you punish, in order to build self-esteem.
• Self-esteem and interpersonal skills are especially essential for all children with emotional disorders.
• Show confidence in the children ability and set goals that realistically can be achieved.
• Some aggressive children act as they do because of a subconscious desire for attention, and it is possible to modify their behavior by giving them recognition.
• Special efforts should be made to encourage and easily facilitate children with behavioral disorders to interact.
• Educators should reward children for good behavior and withhold reinforcement for inappropriate behavior.
• The environment must be structured but sensitive to the needs of these youth with behavioral disorders.
• Use a wide variety of instructional equipment which can be displayed for the children to look at and handle.
• When an interest in a particular piece has been kindled, the instructor can talk to the ODD student about it and show him or her how to use it.
• When appropriate, seek input from the children about their strengths, weaknesses and goals.
• You should refer the children to visual aids and reading materials that may be used to learn more about the techniques of skill performance.

Laboratory—

1. Activity instructions should be simple but structured.
2. Be sensitive when making team pairings for activities so that the ODD student with an emotional disorder is supported.
3. Consider alternate activities/exercises that can be utilized with less difficulty for the ODD student, but has the same or similar learning objectives.
4. Every effort should be made to arouse the interest of such children in laboratory activities, so they will learn to perform the activities with success and pleasure.
5. If a ODD student must be denied permission to use the equipment, this should be done on an impersonal basis so the student will not feel hurt or discriminated against.
6. If unstructured activities must occur, you must clearly distinguish them from structured activated in terms of time, place, and expectations.
7. If unstructured activities must occur, you must clearly distinguish them from structured activated in terms of time, place, and expectations.
8. Monitor carefully to ensure that the children without disabilities do not dominate the activity or detract in any way from the successful performance of the ODD student with the behavioral disorder.
9. Plan for successful participation in the laboratory activities by the children with behavioral disorder. Success is extremely important to them.
10. Some children with behavioral disorders may go to great lengths to avoid class participation. To feign their disorder is the method most frequently used, in hope of being excused from participation.
11. Special efforts should be made to get children with behavioral disorders to interact in laboratory activities.
12. To ensure success consider the special needs and interests of each person; give friendly, patient instruction in the laboratory skills; and continually encourage a wider interest in activities.
13. Use a wide variety of instructional equipment which can be displayed for the children to look at and handle.
14. When a ODD student displays a reaction of dislike to the activities this dislike usually stems from fear or lack of experience for the activity or factors inherent within the situation itself.
15. When an interest in a particular piece has been kindled, the instructor can talk to the ODD student about it and show him or her how to use it.

Group Interaction and Discussion—

• Acknowledge the contributions of the ODD student with an emotional disorder.
• Along with the student, devise a contingency plan in which inappropriate forms of response are replaced by appropriate ones.
• As the ODD student's comfort level rises and when a safe topic is available, encourage the student to be a group spokesperson.
• Call for responses and participation commensurate with the ODD student's socialization skills.
• Gradually increase the challenges in the student's participation in group exercises while providing increased positive reinforcement.
• Help the ODD student to feel as though he or she has something worthwhile to contribute to the discussion.
• Should monitor carefully to ensure that the nondisabled children do not dominate the discussion or detract in any way from the successful performance of the student with the behavioral disorder.
• Some children may experience considerable strain in social adjustment in a group context. It may be necessary to work gradually toward group activities. One can devise a strategy of progressing from spectatorship to one-to-one instruction and eventually to small group discussion.

Reading—

• It is necessary to target specific prosocial behaviors for appropriate instruction and assessment to occur such as:

1. Demonstrating appropriate reading.
2. Increasing positive relationships by means of awards when they read appropriately.
3. Reading in group or with others.
4. Taking turns, working with partner, following directions.

• Instructional strategies involving self-control, self-reinforcement, self-monitoring, self-management, problem solving, cognitive behavior modification, and meta-cognitive skills should be focused on teaching children reading skills

Research—

• Depending on the site of the research check the previous two sections.
• Review and discuss with the ODD student the steps involved in a research activity. Think about which step(s) may be difficult for the specific functional limitations of the student and jointly devise accommodations for that ODD student.
• Show clear examples of what the children should expect as an outcome of their research.
• Use appropriate laboratory and field strategies.

Field Experiences—

• Consider alternate activities/exercises that can be utilized with less difficulty for the ODD student, but has the same or similar learning objectives.
• Every effort should be made to arouse the interest of such children in activities, so they will learn to perform the activities with success and pleasure with appropriate behaviors.
• Gradually increase the challenges in the ODD student's participation in field exercises while providing increased positive reinforcement.
• Group participation in field activities is highly desirable because it enhances social contacts.
• Help the student to feel as though he or she has something worthwhile to contribute to the field trip.
• In field activities acknowledge the contributions and assistance of the student with an emotional disorder.
• Make the ODD student with the behavioral disorder become one of the field trip leader of an activity which can often reduce their disorder.
• Special efforts should be made to get children with behavioral disorders to interact with other children.
• Use a buddy system.
• Use appropriate general strategies.
• You should encourage children to practice field skills during their free hours.

Testing—

• Be sensitive to the ODD student's reactions to the various aspects of assessment.
• For each student, accumulate in his or her portfolio several examples of work (quizzes, assignments, projects) that demonstrate knowledge of the subject matter or the unit of study.
• Make special arrangements for the ODD student with an emotional disorder according to what their special needs are and that they do not compromise the integrity of the testing situation.
• Provide private room/smaller group setting/alternative test site (with proctor present); alternatively screens to block out distractions.
• Stay on top of ODD student progress through informal assessment, don't wait until it's too late to discover that there is a problem.

Improve Behavior Problems with the Right Curriculum—

Improve Behavior Problems - Inappropriate curriculum and instruction can lead to many types of problem behaviors among children with learning disabilities. Children may:

• Be embarrassed if material is not appropriate for their age levels.
• Become frustrated if material is too difficult.
• Feel bored with curriculum that is beneath their ability, or involving material that is not interesting to them.
• Feel defensive and disrupt the classroom to protect their egos, attempt to restore their "image" before the class.
• Feel like giving up if instructional delivery is too rapid.

When children with learning disabilities' learning needs are not met, they may show a range of behavior problems. Children's problem behaviors may:

• An attempt to have some control in a situation where they feel powerless;
• An attempt to shift attention away from their learning disabilities;
• Part of their disability, especially if ADHD is involved;
• The natural result of their frustration;
• The result of delayed social skill development or underdeveloped adaptive behavior skills.

Educators and moms and dads can reduce or prevent many behavior problems by:

• Adapt and modify materials to reduce the effect of the disability on classroom performance.
• Choosing materials that are of high interest to the ODD student. Have him select his own materials when possible.
• Ensure that materials are appropriate for your youngster's age level.
• Ensuring that instruction is delivered at or slightly above the youngster's current skill levels. Individual achievement assessment can provide information on a ODD student's skill levels that can be used to identify skills a ODD student needs to learn and provide guidance for selecting materials.

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